I was surfing on the internet, and found a a forum where a girl was asking this question. ANd she wrote a whole message about it, saying that she is mad because all what men want is sex ..

i couldnt but reply .. and i thought that i wanna share it with you bibi ...to read what the woman posted, and what other people replied check this link :

http://p094.ezboard.com/faskmenfrm1.showMessage?topicID=115688.topic

and this is MY reply :

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I really wonder why do some people deal with sex as if it is something ultimately Dirty !

Sex is instinctive, we dont WANT sex, we NEED sex ! and by WE, I mean Men, and women. SOmeone said that Men need sex just as women need emotions .. well i belive that Both need sex and emotions just as much as eachother. But the problem is that many men are just happy to get their sexual pleasure, ignoring the emotional pleasure that in turn would ultimatelu increase the physicial sexual pleasure when combined.

What i belive in, is that a relationship is not sucessful when it's ultimate goal is to have sex, and it's also not successful when love is based just on physical attraction towards the other. Sex and looks will fade away after years .. does this mean when everyone is in his 50's there is NO PLACE AT ALL for love ?

being physical in a love relationship is essential, but it sould not be the goal, it should come naturally. it shouldnt be : "I love you because i want to sleep with you , it should go the other way around, " i want to sleep with you because I love you ".

I love my girlfriend SO MUCH, but since we started our relationship she told me not to think about sex so soon, it'll take so much time, mostly till we get married.We are together now for 6 months, and I still love her, even more, and what she said didnt make me lose interest in her, because from the beggining my attraction towards her wasnt sexual or physical, it was emotional and spiritual, FOLLOWED on the second stage by the physical attraction.

A relationship based os this is, in my opinion, the longest lasting relationship. Love shouldnt be based on something materialistic, or else it'ss be lost when the material is lost

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